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How Validation Works

January 17, 20231 min read

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Do not miss this video! I first ran into it on YouTube over a decade ago.

Your day will be better after you watch it.

I promise!

- Carol Webster

This original short film is by Kurt Kuenne https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Cbk980jV7Ao

Introduction:

Have you ever needed someone to validate you or wanted to validate someone and you weren't sure how?

Some thoughts on Validation:

  1. Whatever is said, it needs to be true and sincere.

  2. It is OK to be selective and emphasize the positive.

  3. People may not believe you and may not smile.

  4. Don't give up. Believe in yourself.

The brain believes whatever you tell it over and over and over again.

What if the truth is that you are AMAZING? If you keep telling yourself that you are "dumb", your brain will believe the lie and your life will prove yourself "right" even though it is not the truth.


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Module 2

Be as kind to yourself as you would be to others. Then be kinder to others and kinder to yourself.


Bottom line:

Validate others. Validate yourself.

Guaranteed, things will get better.

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Carol Webster

Fascinated by how the mind learns and it's role in our quality of life, Carol has spent decades exploring how to create health, happiness, build emotional maturity and expand love. She is the founder of Principle Based Learning and Holding Space Practice.

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